What is a Man? Is a man a loud know it all, who talks like a sailor, swinger, who respects no one and nothing, who spends his days chasing women, manipulating and cruel? No! A man is someone created in Gods image to show his glory and to follow the examples set by the savior Jesus based off the commandments of the Father in Heaven! but what being said what is the characteristics of a Man after Gods Heart?
A Man is God-fearing and devoted to his work, he seeks to walk intimately in the way God has laid out for him. The study of the word, is fundamental in the shaping a true man, this is evident in the actions a man takes: “The steps of a man are established by the Lord, when he delights in his way; ” -Psalm 37:23
A Man Has strength! he is unshakeable, confident but not proud, stable and strong. He stands strong in the face of temptation, does not crumble under the weight of responsibility he faces it with God on his side and in his heart, a man possess not room inside himself for timidness, for cowardice, or shame! Truth is not a second language is the only language he speaks! “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” -1 Corinthians 16:13
A Man is infused with a presence of Confidence! Confidence that stems from faith, and out of experience, for he knows where he has been and where he is going. This external power coming from him is not his own but from the lord above and it causes people to look toward him; woman feel safe with him and men find him trustworthy! “For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught.” -Proverbs 3:26
A Man is driven, and has purpose, life is a journey but he is not without a map! He does not allow himself to be defeated and discouraged. He walks the walk the lord has laid before for him with a smile on his face, upbeat showing all that no matter what trial is before him, he shall overcome! “For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. ” -1 Peter 2:21
A Man is Wise and decisive, is not impulsive, works toward the good and betterment of all under his care, and is responsible and just. Pressure is constant in his walk, and but is not allowed to overwhelm him, nor does frustration, or despair. He tackles life’s problems head on, without fear knowing he is not alone “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” -Joshua 1:9
A Man practices self-control, He does not allow himself to become a slave to his desires for the lord has made him free, he controls his temper, knows his limits and stays away from temptation, his manner shows his honorable nature and the word of God at work, because sometimes your walk is the only bible some people will ever see! Let the scripture speak for itself! “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth” -2 Timothy 2:15
A Man is Emotionally mature, does not take criticism as an insult but as a point of improvement, he leads, and does not allow others to defeat him with words, nor does he require reassurance, acceptance or recognition of others to define him. He rarely complains and does not seek sympathy from others. Defeat is just a step toward triumph to this man. “A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.” -Proverbs 29:11
A Man is Law Abiding and responsible! Leads by example, dependable in all ways, pays his bills on time, his word is as good as any promise. he does not steal from neighbors, deceive his friends, neglects his family, for these things are shameful. He is as a good a friend, as he is a husband and father, as his Lord instructs him. He walks not alone but with God’s laws always with him. “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” -1 Timothy 5:8
A Man is Understanding and Loving, He knows how to approach people in walk and words, he finds the right words without compromising the message, confusion is afraid of his presence! He thinks Long term and with all paths laid out to him so he may not misstep or be rash in his decisions; Looks at every issue from every angle and consults the Lord in every question or challenge he faces. “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. ” -Colossians 4:6
A Man takes charge when he is needed, when none lead he steps to the challenge, he protects all under his watch, he keeps his composure, and doesn’t fold in hard times, leading by example and wisdom. “And I charged your judges at that time, ‘Hear the cases between your brothers, and judge righteously between a man and his brother or the alien who is with him. You shall not be partial in judgment. You shall hear the small and the great alike. You shall not be intimidated by anyone, for the judgment is God’s. And the case that is too hard for you, you shall bring to me, and I will hear it.’ ” -Deuteronomy 1:16-17
A Man Maintains Good health, he abstains from drugs and addiction, these things hold him in bondage to earthly things and the Lord has set you free from earthly chains. Lusts of the eyes separated you from your God above, creating idols in your heart, a man has no God in his heart but the Father! Eating right and exercise are big concerns to him, appearance acceptable to God. “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” -1 Corinthians 6:19-20
A Man has Self-Respect! God has made you in his image, Glorious and wonderfully made! Formed by Gods hand in the womb, The Lord Jesus died for Us all so rejoice in knowing your worth everything to the Lord, a man understands all this and walks in the light not just because other watch him and he is to show Gods Glory, but because he is Loved unrelentingly by the Glorious Gracious God above! Show Love in every step you take, concern in every word from your lips, and care in every motion of your hands “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” -Jeremiah 29:11